Category: Prevention of Child Abuse

  • How long will we look the other way

    By Danielle Ellison of Medford, Oregon

     

    How do we value the life of a child? How do you put a price on Christmas morning, the first day of school, snow angels in the winter, cannonballs in the summer, and high school graduation?

    I ask because my son was nearly robbed of these memorable childhood moments. On Sept. 22, 2014, my life changed forever. Horrible abuse had been taking place in my absence, and on that fateful day in September a bright light was shed on a dark issue.

    My 3-month-old son was a victim of child abuse, more specifically shaken baby syndrome. His future is unclear, and each day I awake wondering if today is the day that will unveil permanent damage, left behind by the brain injury inflicted by his abuser.

    Many other children have not been as fortunate as my son; children left devastated, fighting fearlessly to overcome, to heal, to live. When they do live, they are often left blind, deaf, unable to walk or attached to feeding tubes. Many are left plagued with seizures, impaired motor skills, impaired speech and cognitive disabilities.

    While these children are suffering, trying to find the silver lining of this dark cloud, the ones responsible are minimally punished. All too often, the ones who are shattering our youth are serving minimum sentences for inflicting maximum pain, and frequently permanent damage.

    These are atrocious crimes, committed against the most defenseless victims. Any bail amount is intolerable. After searching the inmate list of the Jackson County Jail, and comparing bail amounts of different cases, I was left confused and disappointed. How is it that a person can nearly kill an innocent, defenseless infant and his bail be set at an amount that is three times lower than that of a person being charged with a robbery where no one was injured?

    What kind of message does that send? To me, it sends a message that says material objects as a whole are more valuable than the life and future of a child.

    No amount of money will erase cerebral palsy. It will never give the sight of the sun setting to that child left blind, or the sound of the rain falling to that child left deaf. Our children are our most valuable blessings. When are we going to start protecting them?

    These crimes are crippling our youth. Yet, the culprits responsible often are walking away with a slap on the wrist. A few years ago, a 5-week-old baby girl was severely abused at the hands of her own father. She was violently shaken on numerous occasions. She was left severely brain damaged, and her development halted, leaving her 5 weeks old forever.

    She fought like a warrior for nine years, and then, 10 days short of her 10th birthday, she passed. Her abuser was found incompetent to stand trial because he had a low IQ. This man held down a job, drove a car and lived a normal adult life. Justice was never served for this innocent child.

    In another instance, nearly two years ago a 2-month-old boy’s life was changed forever. This infant, at the most defenseless time in his life, was strangled, shaken and beaten. These attacks caused severe brain bleeding and 25 fractured bones all over his body.

    Now nearing his second birthday, this child should be learning his ABCs, potty training and jumping on his mommy’s bed. Instead he is plagued with seizures, and developmental delays. He is unable to sit up on his own, and has been diagnosed with epilepsy and cerebral palsy. A young life was devastated before it began to flourish, and somehow, some way, three years seemed an appropriate sentence for his abuser. I cannot ignore that.

    Both of these examples are of local children, and they only scratch the surface. There are many more. Our children deserve the right to experience the simple joys in life, not just its sorrows.

    I am a single mother of two boys and understand that there are moments in parenting where you feel like crossing that line out of frustration, but you just can’t do it. My question is, when are the consequences of these actions going to be substantial enough to force caregivers to walk away in those moments of frustration? When are we going to say “no more?” These are not cases of two adults fighting, or vengeance being sought. This is innocence in its purest form, being destroyed.

     

  • Hope for eliminating child abuse in this country

    This is a guest post by David Hoppe, Deputy District Attorney

    I was asked to write a blog about hope.

    Hope in dealing with child abuse. A pretty tough topic.

    A couple of decades ago a doctor was conducting an obesity program with a high dropout rate. Surprisingly many of the people who dropped out of the program were successfully losing weight during the program. Even more surprisingly, interviews revealed that a good portion of the dropouts had been victims of childhood sexual abuse. So for these people, obesity had not been their problem, it had been their protective solution. Indeed many of them worried about the change in social and sexual expectations that would occur with major weight loss. Researchers at the Centers for Disease Control saw the importance of these findings and decided to create a large study that would provide proof of the findings.

    Thus, the Adverse Childhood Experiences Study, or ACE Study for short, was born.

    The ACE Study had 18,000 volunteers through the Kaiser Health Plan down in San Diego. These volunteers provided data to the physicians about their adverse childhood experiences in conjunction with health records and their reporting of self-destructive behaviors. The average age of the participants was 57 years old. The two most important findings were that these adverse childhood experiences are more common than previously recognized and have a direct relation to victim health even 50 years later.

    Indeed, they found that 22% of the participants had been sexually abused as children.

    And the higher the score of these adverse experiences, the more likely to engage smoking, overeating, drug using, attempted suicide and so on and so on and so on. So in making a diagnosis of a woman who had been sexually abused as a child you could diagnose her problems like this – childhood sexual abuse resulting in chronic depression resulting in morbid obesity leading to diabetes and hypertension ending with coronary artery disease.

    So what to do with these past victims, these “Prisoners of Childhood,” who may be undiagnosed and untreated for their true affliction? And why should we have hope?

    We have hope because now we have instituted a policy wherein polygraph disclosures during sex offender treatment of pedophiles are being used to contact additional victims and their families directly to let them know that they may have been abused in the past and specifically that we can help. These disclosures are brought to the Multi-Disciplinary Team and trained counselors are then utilized to contact the victims and offer counseling services which can be covered for payment under the Crime Victims Compensation program.

    If we can get even a handful of these victims each year to stop eating themselves to death, to stop using drugs, to leave the prison of their childhood experiences and move forward as empowered victims, it will all be worth it.

    There is hope for past victims.

    As for present victims, the “Prisoners of Fear”, we currently have two prosecutors who specialize in child abuse prosecution along with many well-trained investigators in law enforcement, a vigilant child protective services and the Children’s Advocacy Center with three licensed child abuse therapists on staff. Resource-wise things are looking good and getting better. There is a Jackson County Relief Nursery (the Family Nurturing Center) that promotes the healthy development of children by coordinating a full range of therapeutic and support services to struggling families.

    Specifically, the relief nursery offers therapeutic early childhood classrooms, mental health counseling for parents and children, alcohol and drug recovery support, home visiting, parent education, crisis response and outreach, respite childcare, and employment counseling and support. In 2003 they found that 94% of the families enrolled in the relief nurseries in Oregon did not require additional reports of suspected child abuse or neglect. Furthermore, 94% of the enrolled children remained in the care of their families. Present victims throughout Oregon are using the services of these relief nurseries and hopefully we will take our prisoners of fear and turn them into normal, playful children again.

    In talking about all of the remedial measures we have taken thus far with past and present victims, it begs the question of how do we create a future without child abuse victims?

    It would not matter right now if there were ten more child abuse prosecutors and fifty more child abuse investigators with five additional relief nurseries — that would not make the fundamental change that would be required to get to the root of the problem, preventing future victims.

    We have a will that needs to be harnessed with a way. I think I know the way.

    The best attorney I have ever seen, and a hero of my adulthood, is a skinny, lanky guy with spectacles who looks like a young version of Doogie Howser. Victor Vieth is one of the top child abuse prosecutors in the country. He was formerly the director of the National Center for Prosecution of Child Abuse, and a man with a plan. A plan to largely eliminate future victims of child abuse. His plan is called “Unto the Third Generation.” It is a call to end child abuse in this country within 120 years.

    This is his Battle Plan.

    • First, abused children must be reported into the system and those reports must be of a high quality. Every university must teach students entering professions, where they will be mandated reporters, the skills necessary to perform this task. Mandated reporters in the field must then receive annual training on the detection of abuse and their obligations to report.
    • Second, the system must conduct a competent investigation of every child abuse case that comes to its attention and when abuse is substantiated, appropriate civil and criminal actions must be competently pursued. Children reported into the system must be interviewed by a social worker, police officer, or other professional trained in the art of speaking to children. Child protection workers called on to investigate and repair families damaged by abuse must be competent to perform this task. And prosecutors must be adequately trained to prosecute egregious child abusers.
    • Third, we must teach police officers, social workers, prosecutors and other protection professionals to be community leaders in the prevention of child abuse. This training must begin in college and continue once these professionals are in the field. In their role as community leaders, child protection professionals must enlist the support of the faith based community. Prevention efforts must be locally run and tailored to local needs. And everyone engaged in the campaign against child abuse must understand their role in history and act accordingly.

    There is currently a program in place called Half a Nation that is striving towards meeting some of these training goals by 2020 across the country. It is hoped that by 2040 every child reported into the system would then be interviewed by someone skilled in the art of speaking to children.

    As for the 80 years after that, it is then hoped that there will be a tipping point where we could dramatically reduce if not eliminate child abuse in this country. Tipping points have already occurred twice in my lifetime, in 1989 and 2005, where people stood up together and said “Enough is enough!”

    In conclusion, I would like to quote one of the great men of history by saying “Be not afraid.” It will not happen during my lifetime, and probably not during the lifetimes of my children, but God willing, in 120 years we will have largely eliminated child abuse in this country.

    Let us hope.

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    David Hoppe, Deputy District Attorney