Category: Donors

  • Mighty Together on Giving Tuesday

     

    By Summer Lewis, Internet Marketing Contractor for the Children’s Advocacy Center of Jackson County

    For a long time I was obsessed with wanting to work for this nonprofit in my community called, The Children’s Advocacy Center (CAC). I applied for their various job openings without success — until they needed a contractor to handle their social media and enewsletter work. I got the job and have been doing this work for them for almost ten years! 

    Ten years ago, however, I wasn’t self-aware enough to tie my obsession with working at the CAC to the fact that I was a child abuse survivor myself. Duh! 

    I see now that I yearned to be part of this miraculous place where children are helped daily — in the ways I had NOT been helped when I was a small vulnerable child. For example, the best I could come up with was to eat canned spinach so I could be strong like Popeye the Sailor Man — who I adored. (Not very effective, but I give myself credit for courage and creativity.) 

    For a few years now, I have been part of running a #GivingTuesday fundraising campaign. Giving Tuesday is December 3rd this year and our theme is “We Are Mighty Together. You Matter!”

    I know for a fact, having been there, counting on the power of spinach and Popeye, that kids can’t figure this out on their own. Kids simply can’t stop, prevent or heal child abuse by themselves.

    The only hope they have of being mighty is with the help of the adults in their families and communities. 

    Kids count on adults and the Children’s Advocacy Center counts on the community to help provide for kids. On #GivingTuesday the CAC is raising funds for the the direct services that help protect and heal kids — and support families.

    I encourage you to donate to the Children’s Advocacy Center, as you are able. No amount is too small. Every amount is a vote of confidence, supports kids, and bolsters families with a mighty impact. 

    Kids + Community + Children’s Advocacy Center = #MightyTogetherCAC

    When we All give together, we truly can be mighty together – including the kids!

     

     

  • Putting kids back together starts at the CAC

    Putting kids back together starts at the CAC

    Bylle McCulley

     

    This post is from a speech by foster parent, Bylle McCulley

    I would like to share with you my personal experiences while receiving the services of the Children’s Advocacy Center.

    10 years ago, my husband and I became foster parents here in Jackson County and we received children on an emergency placement.

    Usually, our first stop was the CAC.

    I was awe struck at how kind, gentle, and supportive the staff was, not only to the child, but also to me as the foster parent.

    When I held a little girl’s hand while she was being examined, it required all the strength I could possible muster to say, “You can trust me. I’m not going to leave you.” Those reassurances had an impact, not only on the child, but also on me as a person.

    I know from experience that putting kids back together again starts at the CAC.

    We were able to adopt a special needs child from the foster care system.  He came to us when he was 17 months-old and he’s now 12.  During our 6-year journey, we received help first from the Children’s Advocacy Center, then Family Nurturing Center, Community Family Court, Jackson County Mental Health, and the Deaf and Hard of Hearing Program.  I will always be grateful for the guidance and direction they provided to my family during this stressful time.

    The most effective response to abuse and neglect requires a collaborative approach, which includes: teachers, first responders, law enforcement, medical, Community Family Court, attorneys, judges, CASA, elected officials, foster parents, the faith community and all the community partners who so generously come along beside us.

    The process starts with the CAC to identify, investigate and provide treatment.

    Please donate to the Children’s Advocacy Center now and don’t put it off. We either pay now or we pay more later. It will cost more later in mental health issues, chronic diseases and possible even the involvement of the criminal justice system.  Join us. We we are always looking for community partners to plant a seed of healing for the abused children and teens of our community.

     

     

  • Community “Farmers” Planting Seeds of Hope

    By Tammi Pitzen, Executive Director of the Children’s Advocacy Center of Jackson County — from her speech at our October, 2017 Cherish a Child Luncheon

     

    A wise man looked at the response in place in Jackson County for victims of child abuse and thought there was opportunity to improve this response.

    That wise man was Mark Huddleston, or as we like to refer to him, Our Founding Father.

    I am so thankful for his vision. His vision became the Jackson County Child Abuse Task Force.

    In March 1991 the Children’s Advocacy Center was opened. The Center had two employees. The only statistic that we kept was that 229 cases were staffed by the multi-disciplinary team. In 1991 our budget was $56,000. The next year the budget increased slightly and we staffed 236 cases and there were 167 interviews completed.

    In the 1993-94 fiscal year, the state of Oregon decided to get serious about how it handled child abuse cases and passed HB 5061. This bill established the Child Abuse Multidisciplinary Intervention program and provided MDT’s across the state with funding. This funding has continued and provides sustainability to services provided in our community to victims of child abuse.

    That same year, the CAC of Jackson County began offering therapy on-site under a contract. In 1994 the CAC of Jackson County became one of the very first centers in the country to become an accredited member of the National Children’s Alliance. We also purchased the building that we still reside in at 816 W. Tenth Street.

    Along the way we added services. We increased the number of children served. We increased the budget. Growing. Stretching. To serve the abused children in our community.

    In 1997 we began doing medical exams utilizing local pediatricians. The next year we added a nurse and an interviewer to staff and hired the first office manager. At that time the position was called an administrative secretary. Some people may not know this, but that first office manager was Laura Horton, who is now our Board President.

    In 1999 we entered into our first partnership with Asante Health System. They provided a full time pediatrician to provide medical evaluations to abused children.

    In the years to come, we added on to our space. We even expanded across the parking lot.

    Today the CAC has 15 employees. We have three full time therapists. We have two medical providers and, for the first time in a long time, our medical clinic is providing services for 40 hours a week. We have one and a half forensic interviewers. One of them is bilingual. Jennifer is the first bilingual forensic interviewer on the Jackson County MDT.

    We have a Family Support Team that provides support and advocacy services to abused children and their non-offending caregivers in Jackson County. There are 5 members of this team. Four employed by the CAC, and one is part of a special project with Community Works.

    We have an outreach team made up of a development director, an outreach coordinator and two contractors working on prevention and community education.

    We have an executive director and an office manager.

    We have a board made up of 18 extraordinary community members and an advisory council made up of ten very wise advisors.

    Stay tuned. We need to grow a little more to meet the increasing needs of the abused children we serve.

    Our theme this year is “Planting a Seed”. I decided to do some research using my top advisor, Google. Here is what I learned:

    • Plants cannot grow strong without proper care.
    • Plants can’t take care of themselves.
    • Some plants are thorny and seem to lash out at anyone who comes near, but these same plants grow into some of the prettiest, sturdiest, and sweetest smelling flowers.
    • Plants cannot find their own water or their own light or their own environment in which to grow.
    • If you want tulips in the spring, you have to get your hands dirty in the fall.
    • Sometimes you need to clear weeds away so that the plant can thrive.

    With those concepts in mind, let’s think about abused children and how this theme might fit:

    • A child cannot grow strong without proper care.
    • A child can’t take care of themselves without some help.
    • Sometimes the child who needs the most love asks for it in the most unlovable ways…but just like that thorny plant…if we nurture and care for that child and give that child love, he can grow into this amazing functioning adult.
    • Sometimes you need to clear the hurts away so a child can thrive.

    In last year we served 695 children and 414 non-offending caregivers with nearly 5,000 services. Amazing. 1,109 seeds planted.

    We are here because of support from the community. We are here because there are people who want to help abused children recover from their trauma.

    I will be honest. It has been a hard month for children in Jackson County. There are many seeds that need to be sowed. Many hurts that need to be cleared away.

    I am so thankful that our staff and our MDT–our partners here–are able to show incredible strength and love for the tender souls of the children suffering from trauma from abuse.

    Child Abuse happens. It happens here. It happens way too frequently. When I am still…when it is quiet…and I am alone with my thoughts…I am thankful, not discouraged. I am thankful that I live my life in a community where children are priority.

    I am thankful that I live my life surrounded by “farmers” planting seeds of hope for the future.

    Child Abuse is a community problem and requires a community response.

    My promise to you—as a community partner, a MDT member, a staff member, a CAC volunteer— is that every single day I will meet you in the garden. Ready to get my hands dirty. Ready to clear away the hurts.

    If you would like to make a donation to Cherish a Child and support the CAC’s work of healing and preventing child abuse, please make a donation of any amount below.

     

  • Cherish a Child Luncheon

    By Theresa Hart. Development Director for The Children’s Advocacy Center of Jackson County

    Each year the Children’s Advocacy Center of Jackson County hosts a fundraising luncheon. During these luncheons, guests will receive an update from Tammi Pitzen, CAC Executive Director, about what’s happened at the CAC in the last year.

    They will also hear the story of a survivor and how each person can help the children we serve.

    On October 12th from 12 noon – 1 pm, the CAC will host its 11th Annual Cherish a Child Luncheon at Inn at the Commons. It is our second largest fundraising event.

    I love the luncheon as it provides a look into what we do and inspires people to make a difference in a child’s life. The event is only one hour and lunch is provided. We ask attendees to give what will satisfy their hearts. Attendees may give a one-time gift or a sustaining gift over the next 12 months.

    The theme of this year’s fundraising luncheon is Planting a Seed.

    Attendees will learn how the work we do is planting seeds of healing in the lives of abused children and their families. They will learn about our community partners who are planting seeds of healing and how they too can plant seeds of healing in our community.

    By giving to the CAC, you are planting seeds of healing in a child’s life.

    I’m excited to share that this year’s survivor story will focus on how the seeds of healing were planted in the heart of the mother of an abused child thirty years ago. It is a truly inspiring story that you won’t want to miss.

    What we know is that when an intervention is timely, a child can heal from the abuse and grow up to lead a healthy and fulfilling life. We also know that the families of these victims also have needs. When those families are helped, they will provide a healthy and safe environment for their child to heal.

    Our newly formed Family Support Team provides advocacy and services to the families of victims. Sometimes when a child comes to our Intake Center, their only possessions are the clothes on their backs. That child’s parent may have had to leave their home, and they may have no place to go.

    Because of the generosity of donors, there is a clothes closet where our Family Support Team may pull out an outfit or two for that child. We work with community partners like ACCESS, where there is food available for the family. If they need additional clothing or other items to set up their new home, we will give them a Goodwill Industries voucher to purchase items from one of their stores. We work with other agencies to help these families.

    We are truly grateful for the community partners doing great work to help these families.

    The CAC is a place where children can come to tell the story of their abuse in a loving environment that feels like a home. If they have been injured, they will receive a medical evaluation by a specially trained medical provider.  These head-to-toe evaluations can take two hours or more to perform. During that time, evidence is collected and other medical needs are assessed. Our medical providers give referrals so those additional needs may be addressed. Some of these children have not seen a doctor since they were born.  They also provide assurance to these children that their bodies will heal. These children may also receive a therapy assessment to determine their needs.

    We offer short- and long-term therapy as well as specialized therapy groups for the victims. There is also a Parent Group where the non-offending parent may learn how to care for a child that has been through trauma. The CAC is a place of healing. Your gift will plant seeds of healing and recovery in an abused child’s life. Your gift will help those families to provide a safe and healthy environment for their child to heal.

    Your gift also plants seeds of healing in our community. We partner with The Ford Family Foundation to provide PROTECT OUR CHILDREN child sexual abuse prevention training where adults learn to identify the signs of abuse and are given tools to intervene and to prevent child abuse from happening. During the last two years, we have trained 1100 people Jackson County. We offer monthly trainings at the Medford Library as well as provide trainings at schools, agencies, churches and organizations that work with children. I would encourage anyone who has or works with children or youth to take this training.

    We work closely with community partners who specialize in child abuse. We assist them in planting seeds of healing in the community. We work closely with the Department of Human Services-Child Protection Division (DHS), law enforcement, CASA, Family Nurturing Center, Community Works, the District Attorney’s Office and many more to help in the identification, intervention, prevention, and prosecution of child abuse cases in Jackson County.

    Be inspired. Attend the 11th Annual Cherish A Child Luncheon Thursday, October 12 from 12pm – 1pm at the Inn At the Commons.

    Register for the luncheon and make a gift to the Children’s Advocacy Center. While we do not charge for the luncheon, you will be asked to give a donation of either a one time or sustaining gift to help abused children. Registration is required.

    You may register online at: http://cacjc.org/cherish-a-child-luncheon/or by calling 541-734-5437 at extension 1011.

    Thank you for all you do to plant seeds of healing in the life of children. We are grateful for your ongoing support of abused children in our community. We hope that you will join us at the Cherish a Child Luncheon on October 12th.

  • Take action to change children’s lives

     

     

    By Kirsten Arreguin, Program Manger, Jackson County Child Welfare and Board Member, The Children’s Advocacy Center

    April is Child Abuse Prevention Month.

    Thank you for taking the time to read and get informed about child abuse prevention. Most people would probably avoid reading about the abuse and neglect of children. It’s easier to ignore it, pretend that it doesn’t happen in your community, in your neighborhood or to children that you know.

    But you’re different. You’ve taken the time to educate yourself or you may even know firsthand what it’s like to suffer from child abuse. For whatever reason, you’re the kind of person who gets involved in finding solutions. You’re a leader in your community’s fight against child abuse and you show a great deal of strength and courage.

    You know the warning signs of a child in danger might include:

    • Frequent or unexplained injuries
    • Sudden changes in personality, activities, or behavior
    • Inappropriate sexual behavior
    • Depression and anxiety
    • Hypervigilance

    You know the warning signs of a family at risk that may include:

    • Abuse of alcohol or drugs
    • Domestic violence
    • Isolation from others
    • Difficulties controlling anger or stress
    • Appearing uninterested in the care, nourishment or safety of their children

    Are you looking for more ways to make a positive difference in the lives of children? You already have a heart to serve, so here’s your next challenge: Look at the suggestions below and resolve to take action on one of these this year.

    Take the Training!

    Protect our Children is a child sexual abuse prevention training program offered through The Children’s Advocacy Center. This free training teaches you how to protect your child and those around you from sexual abuse. You will learn to spot the signs of possible abuse and respond effectively if you suspect abuse.

    I’ve taken this valuable training, and I urge you to do the same. Please go to the Children’s Advocacy Center’s website and click on Services/Protect Our Children to register to find out more. You can attend 3 hour training held monthly at the Jackson County Library or request a training for your work, church, or organization. I can’t tell you how important this training is for every adult in our community. Please consider signing up today.

    Volunteer your Time & Talents!

    Have you already taken the Protect our Children training? Would you also consider volunteering your time to assist others to complete the training? There are several opportunities available for you to help make more trainings available to the community. Your time and talents are needed in many other ways also. You can view more opportunities on the CAC website when you click on the Volunteer tab. No time is ever wasted when it’s spent in the service of a child who’s experienced abuse or neglect.

    If you’re not able to volunteer your time, can I make a personal ask of you? The CAC provides specialized medical and therapeutic services to hundreds of children every year. They need your financial support to continue offering these valuable services. Please consider making a donation today by visiting the website and clicking Donate. Believe me, I know firsthand how important your gifts are to the children who are seen at the CAC.

    Open Your Heart and Home!

    As the Program Manager for Jackson County Child Welfare, I would be remiss if I didn’t take a moment to tell you about our community’s great need for foster homes. Unfortunately, at this time, we are struggling daily to find families who can provide foster care for children who have been or are suspected of being the victims of abuse or neglect. It is a heartbreak to have no other option than to separate siblings into different homes because there simply is no room for them to stay together. Would you like to find out more about becoming a foster parent? Please contact us at 541-776-6120 or visit us on Facebook Jackson County Foster Care and Adoption.

    Thank you for having a heart for children and a desire to help in their healing.

     

    Kirsten Arreguin

     

  • 2017 Winter Gala: An Evening on Broadway

    2017 Winter Gala: An Evening on Broadway

    By Theresa Hart, Development Director for The Children’s Advocacy Center of Jackson County

    It was a night to remember as people gathered from near and far for An Evening on Broadway. Attendees arrived in Broadway costume, formal or casual attire to raise money for children. Even the Tin Man showed up for some fun.

    In the beautiful setting of the Rogue Valley Country Club, more than 250 persons enjoyed singing On Broadway and bidding on silent and oral auction items generously donated by local businesses and friends throughout the Rogue Valley.

    The Broadway theme was carried through to a bright Marquee and photo booth where guests posed for pictures. Grease Lightning was also well represented.

    The Opening Act – The Children’s Advocacy Center Bear – was auctioned off twice. The nearly famous CAC Puppy went to a good home again this year. The fun didn’t end there. Oral and silent auction items included trips, entertainment and wine packages. There were also some unique items and a 50/50 raffle.

    We are so grateful to the more than 30 volunteers who contributed countless hours to make the event a huge success.

    Thanks to all of our sponsors and donors for your generous donations and partnering with us to work towards communities where children are safe, families are strong, and our child victims become children again.

    View our Facebook Album for pictures from Gala 2017!

     

  • Philanthropy Should Be at the Heart of All Local Businesses

    Philanthropy Should Be at the Heart of All Local Businesses

    By Renae Dixon, KeyBank

    At KeyBank, we have one overall goal: to help our clients and communities thrive. While we have a laser focus on financial wellness, we realize the benefit of a holistic approach to well-being and are always looking for ways to be involved in the communities where we live and work.

    That is why the mission of one of our clients, CACJC, is so important to us. As they support the most vulnerable in our society, we are proud to support them in any way we can, including financial support.

    We have always been aware of the excellent work they do in the community and are proud to support their goals. For the past two years, we have presented a gift to the organization at our invitation-only event on the eve of the annual Southern Oregon Business Conference. That evening we were proud and pleased to showcase CACJC and raise visibility for its work on behalf of children in the presence of an audience of prospective supporters and donors.

    Philanthropy is part of KeyBank’s DNA and we have been nationally recognized for improving the quality of life in our communities. The Civic 50 identifies the top 50 S&P 500 corporations in the U.S. in terms of time, talent and resources used to improve the quality of life in their communities. Key was named to the most recent Civic 50 list as one of America’s 50 most community-minded companies by the National Conference on Citizenship and Points of Light.

    The KeyBank Foundation works hard all year long to connect closely with nonprofit partners that will have a transformative impact on our communities, and our employees’ engagement in volunteerism and personal philanthropy is a source of pride for us all.

    We’re certainly not alone in our commitment to improving the quality of life in our communities. According to Giving USA, corporations donated $18.45 billion in 2016. That’s a great deal of money. But the needs are always greater.

    Will you join the movement? If you have the chance to initiate a program of volunteering or donating at your business, I encourage you to do so. Being a good neighbor and helping our community allows all of us to thrive, together.

     

    About the author: Renae Dixon is Senior Business Services Officer at KeyBank. She can be reached at 541-282-2372 or renae_a_dixon@keybank.com.